So, Phew! For one more year, I don't have to worry about Santa Claus! Each year, I wonder what stories my kids will bring home. I don't want to test their maturity too soon, by letting them know the whole deal. But, I also can't lie to them about this very important thing! So, how can I be honest with them while still not giving them ammunition to ruin another kid's Christmas?
Well, this year, it's still easy! At daycare, there *was* Santa. That's it. That's all there is to it! This guy who was Generally Accepted As Santa, gave them presents. Nevermind that Zachary *watched* me wrap a present which Santa then passed off to another kid the next morning. That's totally irrelevant. The facts remain that Santa gave them each a present, generating the all-important "correct response" to the question, "What did Santa give you this year!?". A response that will not cause any other children to question the existence of Santa, and yet will not cause *our* children to dive head-first into belief in a supernatural gift-giver who, strangely enough, only gives expensive gifts to rich kids while a third of the planet does not have enough safe water to drink. I don't want my kids to believe in Santa. But, I also don't want them to ruin another family's special beliefs and fun. So, a guy who shows up at daycare in a red suit and hugs them all (the director's husband) is a perfect compromise for me.
And, I must say, even though he was not at all convincing to an adult, *this* Santa was 100% genuine in spirit. He really enjoyed being a Santa. He probably knows all the kids secondhand from Mrs. Claus' stories! And, that is a very important lesson of Christmastime.
Friday, December 17, 2010
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